Kamis, 15 Oktober 2009

shut up, please!

What happen if marriage isn’t your priority?
What people around you especially parent could possibly think about that?
About being married isn’t an entitled mandatory of a woman in social life.

It wouldn’t be big deal for many people nowadays in this century especially in metropolitan life where people try to linger in hedonism.
I will turn to be 28 years old in couple of weeks, and I’m single, as a single it won’t bother me, actually, not at all. Like a song which the refrain I memorized undesirably “ I am single and I’m happy… ^_^’ CMIIW (correct me if I’m wrong).
Just follow the current and keep the goal I always try, for my longest dreamed-achievement for the sake of my family and myself and yet they ( mostly relative , mom, and friends ) are bugging me by asking when will I get marryyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!
Apparently, they never get tired with questioning me the same damn question. Should be more creative I think. For example “ Hi Nophe, you live in Bali right so you must see lot of “bules” have you ever got steady with one? Which one is best going steady with “bule “ or local? Suddenly I remembered of my colleague’s funny story. One of her childlike relative asked her “whether people in Bali still use Rupiah currency. Lol (it has no relation with the topic hahahha, I just retell coz it’s funny).

Back to the single life topic, i really hope that they think about my feeling. respect my life choice. I mean I don’t mind to be asked such question, ‘coz it’s normal question though honestly I think about it more advanced. Only the problem is when it happens constantly and seems to be endlessly. Realize it or not it turns to be hectic and irritating me at the same time.

I don’t understand what the big issue of being a 28th year-old single woman??? What’s wrong with that? Believe me. I need help to figure out this matter. How to make they understand that I’m happy with my life?

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